Who pays for a baby shower? (And a bunch of other mess...)?

Don't do this OK they're taking advantage of you & it's wrong. Since the Mom to be is throwing her own shower then let her do it at her house & pay for decorations too. Don't give the Costco card either this is so tacky of them it's un-real. Don't play chauffeur either they're treating you like a door ma. Stand up for yourself because if you don't other people will see this weak-ness in you & use you over & over OK